April 5, 2010
XOXO Gossip Post.
Criticizing. I like criticizing. And gossip. I don't know what the big deal is if you gossip. And why it's regarded as negative element. Why is it a flaw? And also, the whole 'if you got something to say, tell it to my face, not behind my back' cliche, it's just so not-at-all-understandable. What if everyone went and said everything in everyone's face? Would that world be a better place? No, there would probably be thousands of arguments, fights and stupid debates. If I have an opinion about someone, why do I have to share with that certain someone? I'm just gonna go gossip to my friends. Why would that someone care what I have to say about him/her? Of course, friends, family, excluded. Because they would obviously care. Concerning the rest, even if I'd tell them, the most probable given answer would be' So what, I don't even care what you think about me'. See? Big surprise. Huge. Then why is talking behind your back such a big deal? And don't say that the appropriate, correct and best thing to do would be not to talk at all. If that's my way of having a good time, then yes, I'll do it. And it's not just me. It's all the girls. And most boys. Who doesn't love a good gossip? It's a common thing. So, don't be an arrogant and say the words' I never gossip. If I have an opinion, I tell it straight to their face'. Okay, news flash! You don't have to!